Turn Wives to Widows

I am writing in response to a letter written in the 'Voice of the People' section of February 28th's Sports Section.

Jennifer Nunez writes that the oncoming storm of the Cubs season marks an uninvited separation between men and their significant others. While the Cubs do occupy a large strip of time, and stretch over a grueling 6+ month schedule, by no means can you call the other half the 'widowed.'

For thousands of men, the Cubs hold such a strong grip on our lives that yes, during that time, our daily life changes. MLB Gamecast shows up on our computer screens during work. Bank accounts feel the weight of inflated ticket prices. WGN finally has people watching it. But for the masses of Cubs fans, this does not upset the general flow of life.

Yes, 60 games in a season is on the excessive side. Season ticket holders stretch their relationships thin. But for the other 90% of Cubs fans, the change in our lifestyle only sways with final scores, injuries, and questionable coaching decisions. Relationships don't always strain throughout the season. Only the foolish hopefuls that hang their hats on 'believing' let the Cubbie Blue filter through their blood enough to creates widows out of wives.

While I love the Cubs, and baseball above everything, I have survived through relationships with this addiction. The answer comes to compromise. Compromising time spent in the stadium. Compromising night games for night dates. Compromise. But that goes both ways. Instead of wincing at post game interviews, learn the tidbits of baseball that make us love the game. Share something instead of letting something break you apart. Embrace the passion, don't bash the deepest thread in many of our lives.

Oh, and women love the Cubs too.